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Dec 24, I was supposed to be in a Marriott Hotel, Atlanta.

Dec 26, I was supposed to arrive at the PVG.

Jan 1, I was supposed to take "wedding" photos with my fiancé in Hangzhou.

Anyway, compared to the reality, plans are always fantastic.

Thanks to the Orlando trip, I was distracted from the disappointment and home-illness. Even the most childish events in the Magic kingdom remind me of the dreams and memories when I was a little girl.

On the Christmas Eve, the fireworks lightened the sky above the Cinderella Castle. They were so fabulous that I couldn’t help holding tightly with his hands and enjoying this romantic moment. All the pressure passed away and I just indulged myself in such an exciting night.

Before coming back to Charlotte, I spent some hours wandering on the Daytona Beach with my pals. Everything looked so warm and gorgeous in the light of sunrise. I suddenly realized that love, dear ones, friendship, which people spend all their lives looking for, are being surrounding me, no matter in or outside the American land. Mom, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, I miss every one so much. Happy Holiday to all of you and myself.

97年的农历生日，恰逢七月一日，HK回归，邀请了几位幼时同窗参加生日聚会。11年过去，现在的她们，一位供职高盛，一位就读于麻省医学院，一位刚从加州某校的经济系毕业，一位在人大读研。与她们有的仍保持着密切的联系，有的只能送上遥远的祝福。即使难有再重聚的机会，依然时常会忆起当年的同窗情谊。

02年的生日里承受着高考的压力，与未名湖畔擦肩而过，遭遇所谓的落榜，神伤了许久，算是人生重大挫折吧，然而仁慈的命运之神却又在一个月后给了我另一次机会。

04年的生日当天去了梅隆镇广场8楼，早晨6点多排队，四小时后金发MM轻描淡写几句话就在我护照最后一页留下个日期印章，哭死。。。积攒了两年的成绩，问了N多面经才赢得这个交换生名额，Anyway, 新东方名言之一：人生没被拒签过是不完整的。。。

转眼到了出国之前，是和两位美女在外滩某号上欣赏着浦江两岸的七彩霓虹，品着Strawberry Bellini or Sex on the Beach，为可能的相聚和别离唏嘘不已，也憧憬着将来的学业、工作、婚姻和家庭。

今年呢则是和一对外表抢眼、魅力十足的佳眷共同渡过，先沾沾他们的喜气：）出国后的生活渐渐褪去了上海的浮华和聒噪，沉淀下来的则是内心深处更加真实的感受。

谈到生日愿望，有效期太短，所以决定列出个五年计划：

1．  五年内希望能在某个国度的某个城市定居下来。

——再坚强的人漂得太久也会累了，毕竟浮萍无根。

2．  希望能像斐南那样有个自己的家，不要很大，只要很温馨。

—— 因为长辈们常常会告诫：家的意义不是一幢华丽的房子，而是住在里面的人。

3．  希望以后能常陪伴母亲身边。

—— 其实每个生日最感谢的人永远是你。对我来说，你是良师益友，是榜样和目标，你是一个懂得爱并且值得被爱的女人。谢谢你支撑起家庭的重担，谢谢你教会我做人的骨气与准则。